Experience more joy and peace in your marriage. Start your journey here.

Welcome! When you’re ready for a stronger relationship or marriage, I’ll show you how to take your next step.

Experience more joy and peace in your marriage. Start your journey here.

Welcome! When you’re ready for a stronger relationship or marriage, I’ll show you how to take your next step.

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“...a must read for everyone in a lifelong relationship"

- Danielle Strickland

Could a book really help you build a stronger marriage or leave your unhappiness instead of your spouse? “Yes!”, say Before You Split readers.

I’ve lived through what it takes to re-build a marriage, and as a divorce attorney I’ve seen up close what leaving looks like on the other side. Combining my experience with the advice of experts, I’ll help you find your next step toward what you really want for the future of your marriage…

…and once you’ve read it, please tell me what you discovered.

"My husband and I often felt we were working against one another, both seeking our own needs and priorities at the other’s expense. Thanks to Toni’s wisdom and practical insight, we now truly feel like a team. We're more aligned, more attentive, and deeply thankful to be working together to achieve our goals.

- Kara

Inspirational and Actionable Marriage Advice for Your Next Event

Toni loves to ignite and participate in meaningful conversations.  Conversations that count and make a real difference.  Conversations about:

  • What it takes to transform a marriage, or build a stronger one;
  • Personal growth;
  • The intersection of professional and family life; and
  • How faith builds unity in marriage, family and community.
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The Smart Family Podcast

Dr. Rob Meeder and Toni offer you high quality, practical advice to build your relationship as a couple and boost your parenting to the next level. You’ll find practical, cutting-edge expert guidance on all things family life.

Why join us?  We’re here to help you love being home!

The Smart Family Podcast

Dr. Rob Meeder and Toni offer you high quality, practical advice to build your relationship as a couple and boost your parenting to the next level. You’ll find practical, cutting-edge expert guidance on all things family life.

Why join us?  We’re here to help you love being home!

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Receive my weekly emails for website articles, devotionals and other resources all designed to help you love being home!

Toni is passionate about her mission to help people love being home.

She’s a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast.

She has been married to leadership expert, author, speaker and former pastor Carey Nieuwhof for over 31 years.

Toni has served the sick and vulnerable over the years by combining her professional acumen as pharmacist and lawyer in various roles in hospitals and other organizations. She has spent decades serving the community through the church Carey and Toni founded, and has been a mentor to many.

Her heart is full when she spends time outdoors with Carey, their two sons and anyone who is drawn to the aroma of their backyard BBQ.

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